FRIENDS

"Friend" whenever we hear this word we have a picture of people or of any specific person in mind.Everybody has friend/friends,but as they say exceptions are always there. if a person who has nobody to call as his/her friend or best friend does that mean that the person is not worth any relation. We often hear people saying about these individuals "hey stay away from him/don't talk to him, no body does he is weird/psycho.. "

         Now if  we see this from that individuals point of view he is new in this city, he is timid but he loves to make friends, and moreover he is very helping in nature still after a point of time his so called friends starts ignoring him/gets annoyed when he try to say something/paranoid about him, this all eventually leads to end of his friendship with these person. with time he develops or it will be more appropriate to say adopts a habit "Not to trust any one easily,rather don't trust anyone but yourself". and this in turn results in his current behaviour. every one gets pissed off by his new and changed behaviour but no one even his so called friends or those responsible for this behaviour never tried to figure out whats wrong with him. "Is this the Friendship they talk about??"  Every one is your friend until you are useful for them or helping you is not out of their comfort zone! we can not deny the fact that every body is selfish!. some time we just pretend to have a good/best friend but the time when you need them the most they either are busy with something/someone or they have a excuse ready i.e "I've told you before that i can't help this kind of situation i get irritated I'm sorry! "
From what I've learnt till now if you claim to be in a friendship or to have bunch of friends you either are fooling yourself or you are fooling them.
 
F-fundamental
R-relation
I-in
E-earth
N-nurturing
D-delusion
S-selfishness

It may sound too negative but from what we experience and what we see we've learnt that this is a sad truth. You may count this as my rationalisation but sometime,somewhere in your life you may have or you will experience this and if you don't then you are among those few lucky ones who are blessed with "FRIENDS"